Parenting

How Anxiety Affects Your Child’s Self-Esteem, by Dr. Dan Peters

Posted on Sep 19, 2016 in Counseling, Education, Parenting

How Anxiety Affects Your Child’s Self-Esteem, by Dr. Dan Peters

As parents, we want our children to go into the world of school, peers and friendships, and life feeling happy, confident and valued. We do our best to fortify their self-confidence within the home so that they are equipped to be strong and successful in the rest of the world. But what happens when they experience real issues that create obstacles to maintaining a good self-esteem? One issue that can affect self-esteem is anxiety. Anxiety is common in young people’s lives, especially in the school arena where they are under constant pressure to get good grades and perform. A little stress...

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When Overparenting Goes Too Far, by Dr. Dan Peters

Posted on Jun 8, 2016 in Counseling, Parenting

I am sitting across two kind, caring, and hardworking parents who are concerned about their 16-year-old son’s maturity, decision-making, effort in school, and most recently, his ability to pass his driver’s test to get his license. Their strong-willed teenager refuses to practice for the test with the family car, and insists on taking the test in the larger, and much cooler, old family truck which he plans on driving once he gets his license. His dad explains all of the mechanical problems with the old truck and why he feels it will limit his chances of passing the test, and how...

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What’s Up With All the Dys’? And What You Can Do About It, by Dr. Dan Peters

Posted on May 16, 2016 in Assessments, Education, Parenting

What’s Up With All the Dys’? And What You Can Do About It, by Dr. Dan Peters

There are many types of learning disorders that can affect our children. The good news is that learning differences and disabilities are getting more press and attention. However, it can get confusing when trying to understand what they mean and how they are similar and different from each other. Children may have one or more learning disorders, regardless of their strong thinking and problem-solving abilities. When your child is not “working to their potential” it may be because they have a legitimate learning issue. Here are a few of the most common learning issues or “Dys”orders...

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Why All Parents Should Use The Teachings from the Jedi Master in 2016

Posted on May 4, 2016 in Counseling, Parenting

Why All Parents Should Use The Teachings from the Jedi Master in 2016

It was 1980 in Century City. I was 10 years old waiting in a line that did not seem to end with my grandma (now 104). We waited for two hours to see the Empire Strikes Back. There was a buzz in the air that I couldn’t explain but could feel. It was three years after the world was introduced to the Force, the Jedi, and the evil empire. At last we were in our seats. I don’t remember if there were coming attractions. However, I remember like it was yesterday, the sound of the orchestra moving through my body as the words rolled up the screen and into the galaxy. I read as fast as I...

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Worry Reminders for the Holidays, By Dr. Dan Peters

Posted on Dec 14, 2015 in Counseling, Parenting

Worry Reminders for the Holidays, By Dr. Dan Peters

It is normal for our children to experience more stress and worry during the holidays. Among the traditional stressors of everyday life come common seasonal anxieties such as worrying how the family will get along during get-togethers and meals, worrying about getting all the vacation homework done during the longer breaks from school, worrying about losing track of school work during those breaks, the anticipation of holiday rituals and the stresses of waiting for pivotal moments such as lighting your own Hannukah candles or Christmas morning. Sometimes the way the holidays take us away from...

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The Twice-Exceptional Adult, by Dr. Dan Peters

Posted on Nov 16, 2015 in Assessments, Counseling, Giftedness, Parenting

The Twice-Exceptional Adult, by Dr. Dan Peters

This piece originally appeared on Psychology Today. Many gifted adults may find that they are still suffering from experiences and challenges that affected them as children. Others find they are experiencing new challenges related to finding their passion, identity, parenting, relationships, career, and more. Summit Center provides a broad range of services for gifted adults, including consultation, testing, counseling, and more. Although the word “gifted” has been used to describe people of higher levels of intelligence for decades, the term twice-exceptional, often abbreviated as 2e,...

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Outside the Box Learning for Outside the Box Thinkers, by Dr. Dan Peters

Posted on Sep 22, 2015 in Education, Giftedness, Parenting

Outside the Box Learning for Outside the Box Thinkers, by Dr. Dan Peters

This piece originally appeared on Psychology Today. Summit Center can help you learn more about your child’s learning strengths plus any potential issues, and can help you find an alternative learning environment if needed. I am sitting with a small group of students who are describing their school experiences. They are talking about worry, fear and anxiety (aka “The Worry Monster”). They are saying… “I got nervous when I had to take timed tests. I could never finish.” “I was always in trouble for talking.” “I was bullied. The class bully only picked on me. I don’t...

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Developing Self Esteem in Gifted Teens, by Melanie Brown Kroon, LMFT

Posted on Aug 18, 2015 in Counseling, Giftedness, Parenting

Developing Self Esteem in Gifted Teens, by Melanie Brown Kroon, LMFT

Melanie Brown Kroon, MA, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, provides therapy and consultations at Summit Center’s Encino office. Melanie works with individuals, couples and families specializing in the emotional needs of gifted and creative adults, adolescents and children. She has written for MSN Health and Fitness and THE THERAPIST Magazine, and she has lectured on topics such as “Talking and Listening to Your Kids” and “How to Teach Self Discipline to Children.” Adolescence is difficult for everyone, but it can be incredibly difficult for gifted kids. To understand why,...

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Summer is a Great Time to Develop Your Superpower, by Dana Cope, M.Ed., Educational Consultant

Posted on Jul 21, 2015 in Education, Parenting

Summer is a Great Time to Develop Your Superpower, by Dana Cope, M.Ed., Educational Consultant

For some children their strength or superpower is easy to see at school. For other children their superpower is hidden and reveals itself outside of the formal schooling experience. Summer is a wonderful time to identify, explore, and nurture strengths and passions. Summer also offers the opportunity to take an indirect route to practice an area of challenge while engaged in a preferred activity. How can you help your child build his/her superpower? 1) Take an interest survey with your child and talk about your similarities and differences. 2) Enroll your child in a class or summer camp...

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A Strength-Based Approach Helps Children, by Dr. Dan Peters

Posted on Apr 20, 2015 in Assessments, Counseling, Education, Giftedness, Parenting

A Strength-Based Approach Helps Children, by Dr. Dan Peters

Learn to ask “What’s Right” instead of “What’s Wrong” When it comes to helping our children learn and develop academically, socially, and emotionally, we want them to feel confident about who they are. At Summit Center, we use a strengths-based approach for assessments, counseling, and treatment versus a more traditional pathologizing model. If we look at the medical model of disease as a metaphor we can see that it is grounded in finding pathology, and getting rid of that pathogen to regain physical or mental health. This model is also used when learning problems...

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